Have you ever wondered why are your parents narcissists? And, if they do such a bad job at parenting, why in the world they chose to become parents in the first place? Wouldn’t they know they must not have the necessary skills required to take care of a child who’s so needy for love and attention?
To answer all these questions, we must go back to your parents’ childhoods.
If you know a bit about your parents, then you must know they didn’t grow up happy and fulfilled. Your parents must have been taught by their own parents that their existence does not matter. That they are not worthy of love and affection. Maybe they were even abused physically or/and emotionally. There is a high probability that your mom was a victim of her own mother or father during the early years.